Avoid other people problems
It is just an example: you have just met for lunch with the friends and began… one girlfriend is pregnant, but was left alone, another recently filed for divorce, and the third friend nohow can find a new job. It is likely that all truly have many problems. So what? After all, this is not our problems. All of us feel obliged to know other people’s life in the slightest detail, because we live in a world where any information readily available easier than ever before. But have you ever wondered that it is actually little or nothing to do with your own life? You did not need to know why Jane dyed her hair in purple and now shows in Facebook only her tattoo photos. There will not come the end of the world if you will not get to know why any couple, in your opinion perfect couple, failed in their relationship…
And it is great in my opinion. Life indeed is so full of worries without problems of other people. Definitely not worth to spend days surfing Facebook or discussing with familiar ones about other people’s problems, which you know just a little or do not know at all. People are not an entertainment. It is strange that people gradually begin to think about others as about non-human beings, but only as images of social networks. And it certainly does not mean that you must spend time with all of your Facebook friends, but remember that other people have feelings – it’s worth. You probably do not remember this always, sometimes when sitting at the computer unwittingly begin to judge others. Other people’s difficulties and drama of life is not an entertainment for others.
We all have our own problems and best is to live own life. All this does not mean that you are not paying attention to the problems of people they know, not feel sympathy for them and do not offer your help. This means that all interesting details about someone’s divorce is the only private matter and should not worry you. The most important is our own life.
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